One casualty of that frantic schedule has been the Christian practice of prayer before meals, a practice often referred to, appropriately, as “giving thanks” or “saying grace.” Christian parents honor the vows they make at their children’s baptisms to nurture their children in Christian faith in a variety of ways. Some try to teach their children, with at best mixed results, how they should understand themselves and their world. But whether they recognize it or not, all parents teach their children by how they themselves live. Surely one of the most important things Christians do is teach their children to name the reality of God’s grace in their daily lives and to express gratitude for that grace and for their life before God by praying before meals. It is one thing for a child to grow up in a Christian home and church in which the language of Christian faith may occasionally be heard. It is something else altogether for a child to hear and learn how to speak not just about Christian faith, but the language of faith, the language of God’s grace in reference to the realities and events of their daily lives.
From George Stroup’s Before God (pgs. 160-161), a solid book that’s hardly about parenting and very much about parenting